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Congratulations!  Thank you for your interest in my services; I hope we can work together to help your day be the best for the two of you.  Things may get a little (ok, a LOT) overwhelming between now and the vows, but I sincerely hope you take the time to enjoy the journey.  You can learn a lot about yourself and your partner (and others!), when putting together a wedding and/or reception.  Breathe. Take a minute to make your decisions, and to check them two or three times, before you put money down, and remember that this day is supposed to reflect the two of you... not me, not your family or friends.  There really aren't many rules you have to follow... YOUR DAY.  YOUR WAY.

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Now that the question has been popped, and the response received, make sure you know the laws and requirements in your state and county.  Laws can vary slightly or be wildly different, and there can be many circumstances surrounding the couple that can play into it.  From when to apply for a marriage license to applying for a new social security card, there are a lot of things to consider... I've tried to outline them or provide links to checklists that can help you from here on out.  I'll have them posted as soon as possible, but if you have any questions before you see the links to web sites,

articles or forms below, please do not hesitate to contact me via text or email... I'll do my best to help in any way I can.

MISSOURI:

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Missouri Marriage Requirements

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Missouri County Offices Link (click on County Offices & go to Recorder of Deeds Office on site)

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Missouri Social Security Office Locations

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ILLINOIS:

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Illinois Marriage Requirements

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Illinois County Offices Link (click on County Offices & go to Recorder of Deeds Office on site)

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Illinois Social Security Office Locations

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GENERAL PLANNING SITES:

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The Knot... planning tools, vendor search, ideas, registries, create personal wedding web site

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Wedding Wire... planning tools, vendor search, ideas, registries, create personal wedding web site 

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HELPFUL TOOLS:

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Etsy... lots of ideas, and lots of budget-friendly choices, all while supporting small business

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Pinterest... anything you thought you'd have to buy, but could make instead, plus ideas on everything

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Google Apps or iTunes Apps... wedding apps for your phones or tablets that can help with reminders, scheduling, checklists, etc.

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ME... I'm always just a text message or email away.  I have been a member of and/or in charge of LOTS of events, from fundraising to weddings and receptions, etc.  I have tips, tricks & helpful suggestions, and even if my responses aren't the way you choose to go, maybe just talking it out will help you make the decision on your own.  Never hesitate to text me to brainstorm.

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